Life is the coffee, and the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life and do not change the quality of Life. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee, God has provided.
So, don’t let the cups drive you; enjoy the coffee instead.
Sometimes you just have to let people go, because sometimes going on without them is easier than trying to pretend like things will ever be the way you want