Being single is a choice. Some say it's to avoid heartbreaks/love problems, but some choose to be single because they are still in love with someone secretly.
"Never believe what the lines of your hand predict about your future, because people who don''t have hands also have a future.
Believe in your Allah & yourself:"
It is of practical value to learn to like yourself. Since you must spend so much time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of the relationship.