Hate has 4 letters' but so does love, Enemies has 7, but so does friends, Laying has 5, but so does truth, Hurt has 5, but so does heal, Negative has 8, but so does positive,,, Transform every negative energy into an aura of positivity.... It's your perception that makes the difference in the way you feel be happy and make others happy
Give all options to the opponent, if you win its historical, if you fight and loose- he is definite to loose next time, if you loose-you can enjoy his happiness even.