How do you spell love?... when you rea
ch the point where the happiness, se
curity, and development of another person is as mu
ch of a driving for
ce to you as your own happiness, se
curity, and development, then you have a mature love. True love is spelled G-I-V-E. It is not based on what you
can get, but rooted in what you
can give to the other person.