The reality of the other person lies not in what he reveals to you but in what he cannot reveal to you. Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather to what he does not say.
special word for friend
Do dosto k dimag bilkul railway k track ki tarah hote he,
jo kabhi mil nahi sakte,
lekin wo hamesha sath sath chalte hue dosti ki gadi ko apni manzil tak pahuchate he.